What is your relationship to apology?
Posted on Apr 17th, 2008
by 
TJ
TJ
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for April 17, 2008:
My relationship to apology would be, I try to be mindful most of my time, however if I feel I have said a thing( words) that hurt someone, I can say sorry.
Communication is key here, because if you are not aware you have hurt someone then they have to tell you!! this can be difficult.
Saying sorry is difficult...however it is very healing for both parties
Communication is key here, because if you are not aware you have hurt someone then they have to tell you!! this can be difficult.
Saying sorry is difficult...however it is very healing for both parties
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apologies
May 2008 
Good point. It IS difficult to say ‘sorry’–and even more difficult to mean it when you say it! Specially if the other is not receptive.
We hurt people by judging them whether they know it or not. The way to know whether we are hurting someone else is to know when we are projecting our judgements on to another.
Loving…Will.
Hence….the absoloutly fundamental nature of communication and honesty about how we are feeling.
Amen to that TJ. As we judge & project on to others it is personally felt as self repression. If we do not feel, we may never know what we do.
Let us heal…Will.